Wednesday, November 29, 2006

Cafe Taste

Ericka and I visited Cafe Taste for the first time about a month back. We'd walked past this little gem in Parkdale any number of times. We'd even stopped to check out the menu. But we'd never gone in. Then, one Wednesday night we decided to go in for dessert.

We ordered a chocolate tray with cakes and fruit, sipped port, all the while listening to a performance from local musician Gregory Dominato. Snuggling into a cozy corner together, listening to the music, we found ourselves lost in the warm, welcoming atmosphere.

When Jeremy came by, we engaged in various conversations about wine, about organics, the importance of green practices, and about good food. We talked about consumer culture and the importance of changing our attitudes towards the earth that sustains us. Keenly aware of the earth's constant degradation and turmoil, it's not surprising to see the cafe's Green Policy on its website:
"Our green policies include a commitment to eco-friendly, fair trade coffee, and promoting a non-throwaway customer culture. We do not provide disposable take-out containers, and take-out coffee goes in a travel mug - a gift from Cafe Taste."
What other restaurant owner is so concerned with the state of the earth that he would rather give away travel mugs than see another styrofoam cup in a landfill? I haven't heard of any. If only more restauranteurs would be so conscious of their impact, and that of their customers upon the earth. If only we would reduce our earth-breaking practices, and refuse to use disposables.

Even with this insistence upon high quality food, and reusable containers, the prices are extremely affordable. Even Jeremy's monthly wine tastings are $40, including several glasses of wine, cheese, and spirited histories of the regions and wines being discussed.

If you haven't gone, you must. This is one of my favourite features of our new neighbourhood, and I can't wait to go back...

Wednesday, November 15, 2006

So, The Poor...

...Are they really my responsibility?

Sometimes I wonder if we don't deflect our responsibility to help the poor and the oppressed on technicalities. Sure - Jesus told the rich young ruler to sell all his stuff - but me? I'm middle class. I'm exempt.

Sometimes I wonder if we ignore the calling we have where God has placed us to serve, because we feel the only way we can serve is to sell all of our possessions. Get rid of it all, move on, become poor.

Perhaps the question then becomes, if you're working on Bay Street, do you need to use your money in the same way "Bay Street People" do in order to be an effective witness - or do you look at things differently? What does the incarnated gospel look like in a Bay Street investment firm?

To understand that affluence has a profound effect on the gospel’s communication is to understand that the gospel is not merely communicated as a set of propositional statements, but in a more holistic fashion that encompasses the entirety of the communicator’s life. That encompasses not only the way one acts, or the god one points to, but the way in which one uses her money, as well.

In general, people's understanding of both messenger and message is powerfully—if indirectly—affected by the way in which the messenger (in this case, a Christian Messenger) utilises her money. Medium and message, words and deeds, theory and practice, faith and works cannot be separated in the life of the one who would remain a credible Christian

As Christians, in no matter what context we serve, we must be cognizant of the way in which our relative affluence affects the message we seek to proclaim. In seeking to follow Christ’s own example, we must not look merely to our own interests, but to our relationships with others. One area in which our relationship with others is affected, is our attitude towards money.

The writer of the letter to the Philippians calls us to minister with the same mind that was in Christ Jesus:

Who, though he was in the form of God,
did not regard equality with God
as something to be exploited,

but emptied himself,
taking the form of a slave,
being born in human likeness.
And being found in human form,

he humbled himself
and became obedient to the point of death—
even death on a cross. (Philippians 2:6-8; NASB)

Seeing our affluence in the context of this passage, and in the context of Christ’s humiliation, we find ourselves called, like Christ to sacrifice position and affluence for the sake of building relationships where we seek to minister. We must strip ourselves of the trappings of western affluence, and the pride that can creep in from this position. We must, in all ways, seek to humble ourselves like Christ, becoming obedient like Christ, and like Christ, pursue humility even to the point of death.

For the Christian, humility and obedience could mean many things. In the context of finances, humility should force us to ask what we are to give up. Are we called to give up the appearances of wealth, or are we implicated in a much more daunting task? What are we willing to give up in order to follow Christ?

What does it mean to carry one’s cross? These are all questions that we must consider as we recognise our implication in the call to minister as Christ Followers. Furthermore, these are questions we must ask when considering the means by which our ministry should proceed.

When we consider Christ, and the way in which he sacrificed his very life to minister amongst us poor and broken people, we are forced to question our displays of affluence. We are not called merely to refine the outward appearances of affluence, but also to enter into the reality of Christ’s sacrifice.

It is Christ’s sacrifice that we celebrate each time we take the Eucharist (communion). It is Christ’s sacrifice in which we are implicated each time we come to the Lord’s Table. As the body of Christ, we too are called to break ourselves for the life of the world. It is this paradigm that the Philippians passage so beautifully illustrates.

The Church must see the real, and even frightening implications of her call. In our communal celebration of the Eucharist, not only do we proclaim the historic life, death and resurrection of Jesus Christ, but we are also drinking death on ourselves, giving ourselves to brokenness for the good of other people.

Financial sacrifice must be a part of our mission. If we are to do more than merely appear to identify with or have concern for the spiritual and physical condition of those amongst whom we minister, and if we find ourselves called into Christ’s mission to the world, then we must demonstrate this in our own sacrifice. How this plays out may be different in different circumstances, but as members of Christ’s body, we are called to a life of sacrifice

I think Missiologist Jonathan Bonk has a great point:

“The affluence-based mission of the Western Church – in contrast to the Incarnation-based mission of her Lord – most naturally serves as an ecclesiastical springboard for moving up, not down; her independently secure missionaries find lording both more natural and more immediately effective than serving, although many have convinced themselves that domination is service. The great marvel of living in the technological age is that one’s mission can be speeded up, rather than – as in the case of Christ – slowing down and finally coming to a complete halt on the cross.” (Missions and Money 82)

Empire Remixed Audio

On Tuesday, May 9, 2006, the Bishop of Durham, NT Wright was in Toronto for empireremixed. Here is the audio from the event. Thanks to Jordon from the Church of the Exiles in Saskatoon for helping us upload it, and to resonate.ca for providing space and a distribution network for this conversation.

Once again, thanks to Alison Hari-Singh, Julia Churchill, illSeer and teknostep for contributing their voices and talents to this evening - it will be a fond memory for years to come!

Tuesday, November 07, 2006

Wedding Pics

So, I know it's old news or whatever, but Ericka and I got married on Saturday October 7, 2006. In the intervening month, neither of us have blogged.

We were wed at Trinity Anglican Church in Cambridge, on the only nice day in October.

Our service followed the Anglican liturgy fairly closely, but we incorporated some elements from our "Wine Before Breakfast" community at UofT - this included a poetic sermon from Dr. Walsh, as well as a mix of hymnody and popular music played by our friends Dave and Sue.














Wedding Playlist:

Sufjan - That Dress Looks Nice on You
Come Thou Fount of Every Blessing
Take My Life
All Creatures of our God and King
Cockburn - Lovers in a Dangerous Time
Coldplay - Til Kingdom Come

Here is a photo wherein my parents look absolutely smashing!



















Our guestbook idea forced each guest to have their picture taken with a Polaroid camera. It was supa-fun, and now we can remember what everyone else looked like on the day of our wedding. Ben, Felicity and Shari-Ann all helped to make this the Best Guestbook Ever.



















Rachel made our cake, and it was both gorgeous and tasty. There wasn't a single piece of it left over at the end of the day. Ann Marie bravely assisted her in setting it up. The fun of it all was that the cake nearly didn't make it (don't tell the bride) (and it was definitely not Rachel's fault) (and maybe I'll write about that sometime soon).






































We danced to Iron & Wine's "Love and Some Verses" and Ericka danced with Rod Stewart -- err -- danced with her father to an old Rod Stewart tune.



















The girls all lined up to catch the bouquet, which just happened to break up into a bunch of different pieces. That certainly didn't prevent squealing and pushing, even tho everyone got a flower to take home...














Family photos were fun. Ericka laughed. Ericka laughs often. Even today, on our one-monthaversary. Special thanks to Aunt Marian for these photos. It's so fun to see different peoples' perspectives on the day!